I really hope that people don't judge me by what I post. I just want them to realize reality. The most dramatic things you see on soap operas. They really happen. You may not think that your child will be part of this kind of drama. Oh, how wrong you are. How wrong you are.
Your child, or maybe your best friend (if you are teen), can take part in bad choices. They might not be the culprit, they may just be the victim of someone elses stupidity. It doesn't matter. They need to make sure that they are popular. That everyone likes them. So they wont fall down with out friends.
This is where good parenting comes in. Talk to your child. Beleive it or not, every child wants boundaries. When they push you so hard, you just give up....sure they enjoy it for a while. Maybe half their life. But later on in life, they wish that they had parents, worthy of being called parents. Tell them that you set boundaries because you love them. Compromise. Make sure you know where they are at all times.
Example: Your daughter is stuck inside doing nothing. Maybe watching a little tube. Then she goes to bed. Or at least you think. She is really out with her friends going to catch a chick flick. She didn't tell you....Ground her.
No, don't ground her. Sit down with her and tell her that you were worried about her. Tell her that if she does it again, you will ground her. She needs to at least leave a number.
You need to be a good parent. Sacrifice everything bad. Drug addictions, alcohol, everything dark. Because inside, you really truly don't want your child to grow up to be like you.
Change the world. Be a good parent.
Harp Minowsaki

Changing.

People change. It's the truth. They can change for the better, or for the worse. Most of the people I come across just happen to change for the worse. It's never good. Smoking, drinking, drugs. Teen pregnancy even. I just want people to change before others change them.
Choose for yourself. Make the right choices. For crying out loud, people, don't you see you are not yourself anymore?!? You use to be a great person. Now you are obsessed with being skinny. You pop pills, you smoke pot, you drink too much vodka. Still, you don't understand that you are slowly killing yourself to get people to like you.
I have a solution, but that is only if people want to listen to me.
Change for the better, and soon everyone will follow your example. I, myself don't handle change very well. It's ok. Changing can be a great thing. Turn around before it's too late. Apologize before you can't anymore. Do something great with yourself. Don't be a victim of your so called "society." Society is all in your head. What you need to think about is comunity and helping others. You don't need to make your mark in society. Society is all about people doing stupid things to become well known.
Why don't you do something GREAT in your comunity, and people will remember you.

Harp Minowsaki

Stupidity strike again....great

So if you read my blogs...I am supportive, for the most part. I am more concerned about others than myself.

So now you know my biggest flaw. Letting people stomp all over me, all I do is pick up the peices to myself...Stand back up and continue life.
Well this time I feel like doing something different. I feel like being opinionated in front of people...Big mistake. Especially in front of this one person who remains unnamed. Apparently I am nothing but a dumb blonde. I have stupid ideas. Let's face it, I can't do anything right and she/he can.
"Don't worry Harp, I will help you through this." says this nameless person.... Help me?!? I can do it on my own, after all I have been doing it since I was three. I am tired of being bossed around by you. I have been bossed too long. I have been nothing but supportive to you and this is what i get. Gee, I feel loved.
Give me one reason why I should except your help? It's not like I have a problem. My only problem is you! You and your big ego! Let's flip things around a bit and I stomp on you. No one is going to help you up this time little person.... You can't make it to the top, you're nothing but the unimportant friend.....
See how I feel? I don't get the credit I deserve. I am degrated everyday. By you. And you just sit here and stare at me talk to you. I talk to you because no one else will. I stand up, because no one else will stand up. I just realized something:


I am stronger than you would ever hope to be. I can fall down and not wait for someone to help me up. I don't need your help because I can get back up again. By myself. I don't need to push people down to get to the top. I don't need your crap anymore. I don't need you. You just stand up so high on your little stick. Well, guess what? YOUR LITTLE STICK JUST SNAPPED ON YOU!
I hope you feel pain. I hope you get everything you deserve. I hope you feel what I feel. I am alone, but stronger than you and your army of pathetic morons who wear too much make-up.

Because I feel great.